My rulebook for internet dating
And every single time I went out, I did two things: In short, I wanted every single date to feel good about me, so I would have the option of going out with her again. And yes, I was always in pursuit of a long-term relationship.
Or does the “in the moment” feeling occur during the process of the date, which is dependent on the woman and on a date itself? How do you approach this dating, “in the moment” situtation? Maybe it’s just me, but all interactions with people mean something to me.
Dear Jean, I’m going to drop the dating coach bit for a second and just be a guy.
When I was dating prolifically, I’d be going out with two or three women at a time. But no matter what, I was looking to keep my options open, have fun, and sometimes get a little action.
So if you really want to understand men, Jean, chew on this one for awhile: Men look for sex and find love. You would never sleep with someone you weren’t interested in. Our words are designed to charm you and make you feel comfortable.
“Instead of thinking in terms of black and white (He likes me/he doesn’t like me), think in terms of grey.
Isn’t it possible that a guy can be out, enjoying your company, being thoughtful, telling you you’re beautiful, kissing you at the end of the night, and never call you again? I am not a man, so it’s difficult for me to understand. For example, if I like a guy, and I had a good time on a date, I’d like to see him again.